About me

I’m just a 47-year-old woman who discovered comic books and her inner geek.

Woman reading comic book

What’s a 47-year-old woman doing blogging about comics? A lot of people my age are facing a mid-life crisis; some of the men buy sports cars and woo younger women and some of the women go shopping and have face lifts. Not me. I turned to comic books: I’m in a comic book crisis.

Watchmen bookIt all started when Ian Clark, one of the reporters at the newspaper where I work, started writing a column that was to be about pop culture, but is actually a weekly report on all sorts of geekery. Some of it sounded kind of interesting. First he got me watching “Battlestar Galactica,” then he lent me the graphic novel “Watchmen.”

The first one is always free.

Things accelerated from there. First I thought I’d just take a peek at “Blackest Night,” after Ian wrote a column about it. Next thing I knew, I had all six issues (number 7 is due out this month and don’t think I don’t have Feb. 24 circled on my calendar.)

Somewhere in there I found out about the lantern rings that you got for free when you bought certain comics in the “Blackest Night” series. I became obsessed with collecting all eight of the lantern rings. I did it (OK, credit to Ian, who helped). Here they are:

Lantern rings

Aren’t they yummy? If you want, you can wear a different one for every day of the week (with one left over – probably the back one, since if you’re wearing that, it means you’re the undead) and I gotta say, they’re way cooler than those day-of-the-week panties I had as a kid.

Each one, of course, has a different power: Red = rage; orange = avarice; yellow = fear; blue = hope; indigo = compassion; violet = love; green = willpower; and black , as I’ve already said, is worn by the undead.

I’m quite sure if you wear all of them at once, you will burst into flames.

Things progressed from there. I knew I was in trouble when, not only did I actually go to my local comic book store and order a comic (‘Stumptown’ – if you haven’t read it, you should), but when I came back two weeks later, I didn’t even have to say anything when I went to the counter to pick it up. They guy just handed it to me.

I was a regular.

All Amazing ComicsMy husband, while alarmed, is mostly good-natured about the whole thing. “It could be worse,” I told him recently. “I could be doing crack.”

“You might as well,” he said as he eyed the pile of envelopes stuffed with comic books that had arrived in the mail that week.  He was just kidding, of course.

At least I like to think he was.

Fortunately, I have a partner in crime, as it were: My 16-year-old son Geoff has embraced the whole thing quite enthusiastically and accompanies me on my regular forays to the comic store. At first, we were a little nervous about going in, having never actually gone inside such an establishment. We must have been quite a sight that first time: It was like we were entering a crack house to make a buy (ah, there’s that drug analogy again.)  “You go first,” “No, YOU go first,” we said to each other, standing on the sidewalk outside the store (Double Midnight Comics – if you’re ever in Manchester, NH, check them out.)

I think we both went in at the same time.

It was like in “The Wizard of Oz” when Dorothy lands in Oz and the movie goes from black and white to color suddenly. A whole world had opened up before us and it was full of comics. The best part was, the guys at the store didn’t snigger when a 47-year-old woman asked about a particular comic. They acted as if 47-year-old women came in to buy comics for themselves all of the time. Perhaps they do.

But I’ve never seen any of them there.

So that’s my story. This is  just the beginning of what I hope will be a long and interesting expedition into the world of comic books, which I will chronicle here. I am certainly not expert on the subject – I’m just starting to dig in – so my observations will be flush with the joy of discovery.

Hopefully, a few people will come along for the trip.

34 Responses to About me

  1. Love the blog (and not just because I’m name-dropped in it). Let your geek flag fly!

  2. ROFL Hilarious!
    Welcome aboard 47-year-old woman. You may have started late, but at least you’ve gotten a good start. And hey, at least you don’t have to worry about “your parents” griping because of all that “comic smut”. Ok,so maybe hubby thinks you’re a bit weird. But I bet your son thinks you’re the Coolest mom in the world. :)

    You’re a great writer btw. And my thanks to Ian for bringing you into the fold. ~ Bargain Hunter

  3. Hi

    I love your blog… it takes me back to my own days of discovery as a child. You are soooo lucky to be discovering all the is cool stuff now! :-)

    Enjoy
    Shane

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Thanks! I can’t wait to check out some of the independent comics on your site! Any suggestions on good British comics to check out?

  4. Where do I start?? There’s so much happening right now on the UK Indy Scene.

    Some publishers of note include: Accent UK, Moonface Press and Markosia and there’s some great stuff from the US too, like Moonstone and Top Shelf who are producing some superb work.

    You can browse my site by genre or publisher, so I hope you discover some nice little gems.

    Shane
    ps: Here’s link to the website for my own books too: http://www.scarcomics.com

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Great! I’ll start browsing and reading. Hopefully I can soon do a post on what I discover!
      So many comics, so little time … :)
      Thank you!

  5. goto http://www.tcj.com or goto http://www.comicon.com we are talking about you on there =) seriously Joe Lee has something on ya.

    Cerebus is a good start then read anything that Sam Kieth ever did like the Maxx My inner bimbo.

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Thanks for the heads up. I will have to go look at that conversation and report back later.
      And thanks for the reading suggestions! I’m always looking for new stuff to check out.

  6. Brilliant.
    I love hearin about folks that aren’t kiddos/teens/young adults getting into comics and other forms of geekery. Ye have my vote should ye run for coolest mum any time soon.

    Cheers,
    Jono

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Thank you! I can tell you, my son’s friends find me pretty amusing – but in a good way. I think :)

  7. I have to say that you have really dived in headfirst into the world of comics and created a great chronicle of this experience. You certainly don’t fit the mold of the stereotypical comic fan, and is great to see a fresh new look on the industry. Keep up the good work!

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Thanks so much – and thanks for the kind words on your blog! What a nice surprise!
      Your blog is awesome – it’s well-written, interesting and looks great. I will be an avid reader!

  8. Wow, just stumbled in here and you are absolutely awesome! Me and my husband often wonder what we’ll be like as parents and geeks. Hopefully it will work as well as you and your son!

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      I feel very fortunate that at his age, my son and I have at least ONE thing we can do to spend a little quality time together. Once they get to be teens, those opportunities get fewer and fewer!
      Thanks!

  9. This is pretty awesome, but I am particularly glad that you found a local comic store that didn’t put you off the habit immediately! If you had to go to the stores in my area, I can only imagine that the result would have been much different, as they are all poorly organized and run by people who are either unpleasant or indifferent. You’d think that welcoming in new customers would be a no-brainer, but it isn’t always that simple, unfortunately. Anyway, welcome! Actually, it’s also cool that your teenage son is into it too, as it’s almost as uncommon for young people to be into American comics these days as it is for women of any age!

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      My comic book store – Double Midnight Comics – is AWESOME! The guys there are friendly and helpful and only occasionally look at me strangely :0)
      Another great store we’ve been to is Comix Connection in Mechanicsburg, Pa., which we went to while visiting my parents. A couple of the others we’ve been to are not as welcoming and after the first visit, we just don’t go back.
      Thanks for reading!

  10. You could wear the black one on Monday mornings. After all, who hasn’t felt like a zombie at the start of the workweek?

  11. Comments about comic stores apply over here in the UK too. I’m very lucky as my local store is really professional and freindly but about 45 miles up the road there is the opposite.

    Small town stores tend to care more about their customers in my experience.

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Hi Shane,
      My experience is a bit limited, but my local store is so good, why would I go anywhere else? I feel pretty fortunate.
      BTW: I took your advice and ordered some UK comics – I’ll be digging into Hope Falls soon! Thanks!

      • A great book that. Dan’s art is quite unique!
        I just sold out of it in fact!

        Better get some more copies in :-)

        Hope you enjoy it.

        S.

  12. Welcome to the habit! No, it’s not crack, thank goodness, but it’ll probably break your bank almost as quickly.

    Seriously, it’s always nice to hear about a new fan.

  13. LOVE the collection of Lantern rings. You might appreciate this–I’m a musician and I wrote and recorded an original song honoring the GL mythos. Check it out at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vo0BaloOd2E. I’d love to hear what you think. :)

  14. Very cool. I’m subscribing.

  15. Always glad to see another woman with a comic blog. I enjoyed your overview of the Walking Dead. Welcome to the world of comic books. Kiss your money goodbye!

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Thanks! And now I have yours to add to my list of blogs. Great stuff!
      And yes, my piggy bank is getting lighter – evidenced by the comics all over my house. Time for a bigger house? :)

  16. I just found your blog and find it very entertaining. I, too, am middle-aged and a comic collector, but I’ve been at it since I was younger than Ian. Feel free to contact me if you want help navigating the weird world of comics fandom. Or just someone to talk to about comics. Keep reading and blogging!

  17. Love your work! I am so linking to your blog.
    Cheers

    Jovan

    • mycomicbookcrisis

      Checked out your blog – what a unique niche! A whole new world of comics to read about. I’ve returned the link.

  18. Whoohoooo! Another 47 year old woman that loves comic books! I am also 47, female, and geeky as they come. One would never know it as I disguise myself by day as a mild-mannered mom, but… by those random extra hours of the night I become… Lady Geekness! I’ve been collecting them for years and learned to draw by pouring over Jack Kirby and Frank Frazetta. My favorite thing to do is to walk into a comic book store and watch the faces of the employees change from: “Who’s mom is this?” to “You have an original of WHAT!?!” Great laughs for me! LOVED your blog on the Swimsuit edition. I remember that issue and laughed my bottom off :) ! I’m glad I’m not the only anomoly into this unique and beloved art form.

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